Lulu / Bibi
On Wednesday in the afternoon, I got a message from Mike saying there would be no game that night because the other team forfeited. My plan had been to go home, get changed, and drive out, but now I had a whole night free. Sure, I could've gone to gym, but nah, I had to take advantage of this 'night off'. So, what to do?
I messaged Jim to see if he wanted to meet up after work. I didn't really want to eat, maybe just drink, but just wanted to talk. He said he wasn't at work and asked if I wanted to drive out there.
Err...no thanks. One good thing about having a night off is that I DON'T have to drive out west.
I had gotten the number of Lulu a few nights ago, who I chatted up on the dating site. I decided to message her to see if she wanted to meet up. I knew it was spontaneous, but I have also come to learn that sometimes spontaneity works in your favour with these kinda things - it shows you don't care too much and haven't put too much effort into planning; like I would've done in the past.
To my surprise, she responded - and not with a negative response. Although I initially asked for coffee, we ended up agreeing to dinner. She said she worked in Livvy and lived in Parra, so I decided I'd drive out there. The other thing in the back of my mind was, if this didn't go well, I could go whoring afterwards. Yes, it was a Wednesday night, but I was up for a 'party night'.
So I went home in my suit, got the car and drove out. I was early, which was good, because it took me a while to find parking. Never thought I'd have trouble finding street parking in Parra on a Wednesday night. I hadn't been out there for a while, so it was good to be back. Brought back a lot of memories.
After parking, I made my way to the pre-arranged meeting place. I was pretty much right on time. I walked to the chocolate cafe where Twish and I used to go after work, and saw no one there. I thought she might be running a bit late, and was checking my phone as Geni had just sent me a few messages. Then I heard someone yell my name from across the street, and it was her, Lulu.
I went across and we shook hands. She was shorter than I expected. Maybe the way she took her photo made her look tall. She also didn't really look like her first photo. But she wasn't unattractive, and in fact, was probably a little attractive. I asked her what she felt like and she basically pushed the decision onto me, asking me to decide. I guess she wants the male to be the decision maker, but what I don't like about women who do this is if I pick something they don't like, then it's my fault.
I suggested the Thai place near us where I went to for dinner with Bush and Kylie. She said ok so we went in. It actually went surprisingly well right from the beginning. We had a lot to talk about from the get go. She talked about work at first, which made me wonder if she was trying to stay away from personal details because she had already decided that she wouldn't be seeing me after this. So I tried to get a bit more personal by asking her about her background, although somehow we always came back to her job as a teacher.
She said she liked her job, but would consider changing careers once she gets to five years. She said she works in a private, Islamic school, which was co-ed. She was different from Katie - not as polished, but at the same time, that made her more down to earth. I did notice, however, that sometimes she'd try to see what watch I was wearing whenever my left hand came up. Hmmm.
We actually talked so much that after we finished our meal I was thinking of a way to leave. Not that I was unhappy, but I guess the stupid side of me didn't want the restaurant to ask us to leave. I noticed that she didn't make any effort to pay, and it was only as I walked to the cashier that I suggested I'd pay and she just said ok.
Anyway, we parted outside the restaurant and she said something like "we can do this again perhaps" and my first instinct was "bullshit, she's just saying that to be polite". So when I got into my car I had already decided to go see Anna.
On the drive there I messaged Lulu, sending her a picture of something we talked about at dinner (communication differences between men and women). I wasn't expecting her to reply, but she did, rather playfully. Oh well, I was still going to see Anna. But then I had a thought - why spend $270 on something that won't develop? Why not see...Bibi?
So ok, I decided to see Bibi, and if she wasn't available, then I'd see Anna. So I went to the shop, walked in, and asked if Bibi was working. The guy said yes so I paid for the hour. I went to the bathroom and came back. When I was told she was ready, I went to the stairs and she was already waiting there. She looked much different to how I remembered her. For some reason I remembered her as fairly chubby, but here she was, pretty thin, and her face was prettier. Damn, what the hell does my mind do.
We went into that room with the painting, I asked her if she remembered me and she said yes. I later asked if she remembered my name and she said no, and asked for it. So I said it in Korean. We showered and did the usual thing. This time when I was on top, I lasted quite a long time. Again, she didn't like her right nipple sucked. I later asked why and she said it hurts sometimes.
After we finished, she laid on her tummy next to me and we talked. She started remembering things from our last session, like how I attended Korean class and only learnt to say "my name is". I asked some questions which were dumb because I realised we had talked about those things before, like what other countries she had been to.
Like last time, she would sometimes lie there and look at me. I said she had beautiful eyes and she said thank you. I did get a laugh when I said she looked like Totoro, lol. She said her friends thought she looked like Popeye's girlfriend, so they called her Olivia. I realised at that moment, that I may have created a bit of an emotion bond. Like, right there, at that specific moment.
She started opening up a bit. I asked her what she studied in Korea, and she said make up. I asked her if she could do make up on me lol. She said she would shave my head, and so I said next time I will bring the equipment and she can do it lol. She also asked me how old I was and I said 30. I think she said she was 25 or 26.
I asked her when was the last time I saw her and she said she didn't remember and asked me back. I said maybe 5-6 weeks.
Afterwards we had a bit of trouble with the hot water in the shower, but other than that, got dressed as usual and left.
I messaged Jim to see if he wanted to meet up after work. I didn't really want to eat, maybe just drink, but just wanted to talk. He said he wasn't at work and asked if I wanted to drive out there.
Err...no thanks. One good thing about having a night off is that I DON'T have to drive out west.
I had gotten the number of Lulu a few nights ago, who I chatted up on the dating site. I decided to message her to see if she wanted to meet up. I knew it was spontaneous, but I have also come to learn that sometimes spontaneity works in your favour with these kinda things - it shows you don't care too much and haven't put too much effort into planning; like I would've done in the past.
To my surprise, she responded - and not with a negative response. Although I initially asked for coffee, we ended up agreeing to dinner. She said she worked in Livvy and lived in Parra, so I decided I'd drive out there. The other thing in the back of my mind was, if this didn't go well, I could go whoring afterwards. Yes, it was a Wednesday night, but I was up for a 'party night'.
So I went home in my suit, got the car and drove out. I was early, which was good, because it took me a while to find parking. Never thought I'd have trouble finding street parking in Parra on a Wednesday night. I hadn't been out there for a while, so it was good to be back. Brought back a lot of memories.
After parking, I made my way to the pre-arranged meeting place. I was pretty much right on time. I walked to the chocolate cafe where Twish and I used to go after work, and saw no one there. I thought she might be running a bit late, and was checking my phone as Geni had just sent me a few messages. Then I heard someone yell my name from across the street, and it was her, Lulu.
I went across and we shook hands. She was shorter than I expected. Maybe the way she took her photo made her look tall. She also didn't really look like her first photo. But she wasn't unattractive, and in fact, was probably a little attractive. I asked her what she felt like and she basically pushed the decision onto me, asking me to decide. I guess she wants the male to be the decision maker, but what I don't like about women who do this is if I pick something they don't like, then it's my fault.
I suggested the Thai place near us where I went to for dinner with Bush and Kylie. She said ok so we went in. It actually went surprisingly well right from the beginning. We had a lot to talk about from the get go. She talked about work at first, which made me wonder if she was trying to stay away from personal details because she had already decided that she wouldn't be seeing me after this. So I tried to get a bit more personal by asking her about her background, although somehow we always came back to her job as a teacher.
She said she liked her job, but would consider changing careers once she gets to five years. She said she works in a private, Islamic school, which was co-ed. She was different from Katie - not as polished, but at the same time, that made her more down to earth. I did notice, however, that sometimes she'd try to see what watch I was wearing whenever my left hand came up. Hmmm.
We actually talked so much that after we finished our meal I was thinking of a way to leave. Not that I was unhappy, but I guess the stupid side of me didn't want the restaurant to ask us to leave. I noticed that she didn't make any effort to pay, and it was only as I walked to the cashier that I suggested I'd pay and she just said ok.
Anyway, we parted outside the restaurant and she said something like "we can do this again perhaps" and my first instinct was "bullshit, she's just saying that to be polite". So when I got into my car I had already decided to go see Anna.
On the drive there I messaged Lulu, sending her a picture of something we talked about at dinner (communication differences between men and women). I wasn't expecting her to reply, but she did, rather playfully. Oh well, I was still going to see Anna. But then I had a thought - why spend $270 on something that won't develop? Why not see...Bibi?
So ok, I decided to see Bibi, and if she wasn't available, then I'd see Anna. So I went to the shop, walked in, and asked if Bibi was working. The guy said yes so I paid for the hour. I went to the bathroom and came back. When I was told she was ready, I went to the stairs and she was already waiting there. She looked much different to how I remembered her. For some reason I remembered her as fairly chubby, but here she was, pretty thin, and her face was prettier. Damn, what the hell does my mind do.
We went into that room with the painting, I asked her if she remembered me and she said yes. I later asked if she remembered my name and she said no, and asked for it. So I said it in Korean. We showered and did the usual thing. This time when I was on top, I lasted quite a long time. Again, she didn't like her right nipple sucked. I later asked why and she said it hurts sometimes.
After we finished, she laid on her tummy next to me and we talked. She started remembering things from our last session, like how I attended Korean class and only learnt to say "my name is". I asked some questions which were dumb because I realised we had talked about those things before, like what other countries she had been to.
Like last time, she would sometimes lie there and look at me. I said she had beautiful eyes and she said thank you. I did get a laugh when I said she looked like Totoro, lol. She said her friends thought she looked like Popeye's girlfriend, so they called her Olivia. I realised at that moment, that I may have created a bit of an emotion bond. Like, right there, at that specific moment.
She started opening up a bit. I asked her what she studied in Korea, and she said make up. I asked her if she could do make up on me lol. She said she would shave my head, and so I said next time I will bring the equipment and she can do it lol. She also asked me how old I was and I said 30. I think she said she was 25 or 26.
I asked her when was the last time I saw her and she said she didn't remember and asked me back. I said maybe 5-6 weeks.
Afterwards we had a bit of trouble with the hot water in the shower, but other than that, got dressed as usual and left.
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