Yes it is...

She called me at 2:30am and I answered. She was like "you sleep?" and I was like "no it's alright".

She was crying, and at first I thought it was because of her mother, but as she talked, it became evident that she was about to break up with me. She was saying things like:

- we have communication problem. Her mother is sick and she wants to talk to someone who understands. She was tired of everyday me not understanding or her not understanding.
- she asked how I could talk about work and basketball but not her mother.
- she said I think too much.
- she said I lie to her everyday.
- she said "everyday you talking"...which I can only take to mean she thinks I talk too much?

I tried to explain but most of the time she'd speak over me. I kept saying "listen!" and started getting upset but she said she didn't understand what that meant. What I tried to explain was:

- yes, we have communication problem, but that's been the case over a year, and we just have to work slowly on that.
- I have tried to talk about her mother before but she did not want to talk about it.
- I think because I am planning our future.
- I asked her what I lied about and she said she did not know.

I had to get out of bed to charge my phone as I was afraid my battery would run out (it was already low). She was talking and said she loved me.

Eventually she said I should go to sleep and that she was tired. I decided not to fight anymore so we ended it there, but I sent her messages after.

She sent messages at 4:30am, I think basically asking if "help" (ie. money) should end, and added that she wanted to be alone and will be in touch with me. I said ok, but asked her to please give me a chance to explain before she decides.